That would be all well and good MWG, but in the process of his crash and burn out isn't there a real possibility that you and your children will end up without a roof over your heads and bancrupt.
He on the other hand will still have his roof over his head at OW,s.
Consider your children in this as well as allowing H to continue his journey whilst you just continue to hold the fort.
This is taking cake eating to another level.