That will not happen. I do know for a fact that my FIL would never have me and the kids lose this house.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
That would be all well and good MWG, but in the process of his crash and burn out isn't there a real possibility that you and your children will end up without a roof over your heads and bancrupt. He on the other hand will still have his roof over his head at OW,s. Consider your children in this as well as allowing H to continue his journey whilst you just continue to hold the fort. This is taking cake eating to another level.
My FIL has already discussed this with me some time ago. FIL would never allow me and the kids to be kicked out due to nonpayment.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
He could but he feels this is h's responsibility, My FIL does not want to enable H at the moment.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
That will not happen. I do know for a fact that my FIL would never have me and the kids lose this house.
So presumeably your H knows this as well so if not you then his Dad will just bail him out and allow the life he is living to continue.(even though FIL is supporting you and kids not H it still absolves him of stepping up and being a man) By that I mean he doesn't have to hit the bottom and do anything like being a man and support and love, care and cherish his family because he knows someone will just pick up the pieces where he fails. How can this help H or get him to pull his finger out.
Let me say, nothing is delinquent and the stuff is paid for february. H paid it today.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Yes me too, maybe February's bills are paid but how much longer can you support you and your family selling stuff on ebay. You really need to have the talk Snodderly said. He may well know the bills but does his mind really grasp it. You have said many times how forgetful he is, wouldn't hurt in light of todays outburst too just remind him -visually in a matter of fact way. It doesn't have to be an angry confrontation. You could do this in your own quiet, loving way.
