Ya know Jeff, you and your W (Charlotte?) talk about stuff and talk about things and how to divide stuff and things and she never made you a quilt.
You don't mention any R talk of feelings and emotions. You say 'I think' and then say what W might feel. Why not ask her instead of thinking you know? Ex: W, how do you feel when you realized that I am one of the few people that doesn't have one of your quilts?
IMO you're not DBing to save the M now. You want to keep it amicable thru the separating process. If asking your W about her emotions will jeopardize that then don't ask.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
