you are avoiding the question Kerry...I did not ask would you rather ski or watch the superbowl!
i guess the answer is you want to do both...there you go...you haven't mastered the "selfish" but you have the easy way out problem solving thing going!
You are too funny John. I want it all - I would like to spend time with GF40, go skiing and watch the Cardinals win the superbowl. And if I have time, do a little house cleaning and more packing of X's crap.
I wonder if Joe Montana, who shares our birthday, also thinks similar thoughts.