DQ--you're correct, there are degrees of evil and danger. And I am glad it's no worse. But it's still pretty damn bad, really.
Predator--yes. Keep in mind that back in May, when this all began, I emailed her and asked her not to pursue this relationship with H so that we could work on healing our marriage. And she absolutely declined, claimed that she was supportive of D and I, but that she and H had a deep bond and to step back would be untrue to who she wants to be--a healing presence. What a nutcase. Yeah, I'll trump that "deep bond" and raise her a marriage and a sacramental commitment. But, as it turns out, I still lose.
Because she ended up with the joker (The Witch-Humper). An apparent win of the pot.
But WAIT!!! YOU have the King of Kings in your hand, don't you???
Sorry, Joker. "Greater is He that is in ME, that he that is in the world!"
