Well, I broke NC today, but with good reason. BF sent an email this morning to check in and let me know that he's leaving tonight for ski trip with brother and SIL (which I already knew, their visit has been planned since Sept). I debated whether or not to respond and was thinking I should say something to be polite. So I wrote back to say hi to bro and SIL for me and that I'm going out of town myself. Partial truth, I am/have been trying to go away for the weekend. If that doesn't pan out I will go somewhere and do something fun. Trying to walk the fine line of detaching and being mysterious.
Kassie, I like how you handle missing your H by reminding yourself why he's not there. I will keep that in mind, I think it will help me a lot in the weak moments.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g