I dont think I am suffering from any post marriage emotions anymore. I am happy to be rid of my X and I really like how I've orgainized my home.
For now, I am just taking it day by day. Who knows, maybe she too is getting some strange vibes.
Hey Kerry,
reading this struck me as a quick about face as well, though I understand everything you say and would agree if I were in that situation. But I don't agree with the above quote. Post marriage emotions aren't about whether you're happy ex is gone or not. They're about rediscovering what it means to be you after a long time of having that at least partially defined by a relationship. It takes time to figure that out and I'd imagine you're still going through that period of rediscovery.
I'm just saying - take the time you need to know who you are and what you want. And do that outside being involved with someone. Otherwise you'll never have the space you need. And if you're feeling weird vibes, she has to be as well - only question is whether she admits it or not.
