Its just that, if faced with much much worse conditions, wouldn't hoosier be happier with the OW being around the D? What if, instead, hoosier's husband was running with a crowd of questionable men with questionable intentions and questionable morals and questionable histories? And what if these men were in H's home, around D?
There would still be nothing a judge or court could do....
And yet, hoosier's D would obviously be in much greater danger in that case than she is in the company of OW.
I guess all I am saying is....ALWAYS be grateful that things are not WORSE!! Because they really could be....
