Women can observe, but I would prefer you make no comments on this thread about the subject. Feel free follow along though, but please don't post your thoughts on this issue on this thread. I am only interested in what the men think on this issue.
Men, This has been an interest of mine for awhile. It is an unspoken white elephant in the room on this site.
The issue I am talking about here is going out with, or seeing, or going to lunch with, or emailing, or dating other women when you have a WAW.
I think that many of the men on here have considered either dating or wondering if their WS would be jealous if you would start being seen with "a female friend".
Here is the Gooch's belief.....
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I believe that seeing (dating?) other people while the WS is having an affair is an effective tool to win them back in many cases. I have seen it work quite well a number of times.
I would like to hear feedback from the men on this issue....
Also, how many of you scope out the "dating" sites and yet don't admit it on here for one reason or another...... and why are you looking?....
NO WOMEN PLEASE. You can read along and observe, but I am ONLY interested in what the men say about this topic.