Years ago H first said it in response to when I asked about the cell phone records. You know hundreds of calls and txts each month to ow. He said it in response to when I would ask where he was going or where he had been. In our M it had been common knowledge between us and normal convo to ask what are you doing today. H used it a lot when I tried to talk R with him pre-DB. H also said he did nothing wrong when he would get caught with ow in various places. I haven't asked a question that would cause that response in a long time but if I did I would put my money on the same line.
snodderly, H is generally a man of few words even when he is talking. Does that make sense?
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