I agree with you. H says I never believe anything he says and it makes me want to smack him and ask "do you blame me". Several times he had made me so mad about his lying to my face that I actually had to present proof to him about his lies and then he would just scream at me for checking his things. I guess as long as the A is going on there will always be lies.
Puppy Dog Tails-
Thanks so much for offering your advice. I can use all of it I can get at this point. I did tell H to stop lying. Over and over again and all he does is say that he is not lying and he is tired of being accused of doing so.
As I said to WaitingPatiently that is why I had to throw proof in his face. I don't present proof anymore cause I don't want him to know how I am getting my facts so I just let it be. I believe NOTHING he says anymore. Once in a million he will tell the truth.
Not sure what you mean by "agreement" that we have made. If I understand what you are asking....well there isn't one at all. When I filed it was pretty much H goes his way and I go mine.
I did really good at first. Hardly talked to him at all other than where D7 was concerned. I was over it. But then OW went away a little at a time for a while and H reeled me right back in.
I feel like I am losing him all over again even though I was never getting him back to my knowledge. Make sense? He picks at me all the time if he "thinks" I am going out with someone. He tells me a lot of things that OW is doing or going through. I just listen. Not sure what else to do.
H is still insisting that there is nothing more than friendship between he and OW and yet they tell each other "I love you" at the end of their calls. He says it is just smoke blowing. I don't know what kind of idiot he takes me for but I darn sure don't believe there is "nothing" going on.
The sad part is that D7 hears a lot of the "I love you's" between them 2 when she is with H. She asks him every now and then if they are getting married which he replies "no". She tells me that it is not right for daddy to be seeing OW when we are still married and so is OW. I just tell her "I know".
