Trying to let go........with love!

[Silent Chrleader]

.....That's called CAKE EATING....

Well, that's a depressing thought....

But, I understand what you are saying and I do make it too easy on him sometimes I know. It's a fine line sometimes between "being the greener grass" and being a doormat.

It is my understanding that H doesn't talk as much to S17 as he used to.....i.e. since it came out that he had confessed his affair to S17 while drunk. S17 has complained that he no longer has that with H. But I do think maybe S17 asks and they do talk on some relationship stuff, much like S17 and I do. We try to keep it "generic" in trying to teach about relationships rather than speaking about specifics of our R. But, I know that H doesn't talk really about the "emotional" stuff to anyone.


The discussion of the "set ups" specifically started early on in the sitch and I suspect S17 just continues to ask status.....

And, yes, I am taking the baby with me this weekend. It turns our my step-brother and neice will be going too, so there will be 6 of us!!! FUN!!!!