Trying to let go........with love!

[Silent Chrleader]

Thank you, BG.

I can always count on you for a warm fuzzy!!

H called to talk about the plan for the next couple days. He was thinking of taking S17 out tonight, but he is really busy with work (he has been promoted and is hiring his replacement while taking care of both jobs, and some more besides ).

We were going to swap the car for the truck, so I could use the truck to take our old couch up to the dream house where H says he will either use it or burn it. But, since he is really busy, and we are leaving Friday morning, he wasn't sure how to get the truck to me, or get the couch in it.

So, I told him that since I took tomorrow off, I could drive to the city and swap the vehicles and then I can supervise S17 and his friend in loading the couch. Well H seemed very thankful for this and thanked me. I am a little surprised that he accepted my offer. He has been so tight and afraid to either show kindness or allow me to do anything, because he fears "leading me on".

So, I'm hoping that my e-mail the other day about being kind to each other, has sunk in a little. I hope so. It makes our interaction so much more pleasant, and I appreciate that.