Hi Mike - It is not the difference in religion. We dont see each other that often - sometimes wed night and Friday/Saturday's. To be more specific...
- She tends to criticize me or things in my house to the point where it bothers me.
- I cant ever see where she lives. This is because her father would find it unacceptable for his daughter to have a man in her home unless she was engaged. But yet, she spends Friday nights at my house.
- I can see her D4 and my D6 teaming up and antagonizing my sensitive S8. Her D4 is very cute/friendly, but is quite energetic (ADD?) to the point where it had bothered both my mother and father when I introduced them.
- I seem to be burdeoned with keeping the conversations going and if I dont say anything there is silence on her end.
- Her parents did not want to meet me when I went to her chuch service because I had not been formally introduced.
- And last night, she told me that even though a local city politician got caught in a big lie to gain office that it is ok because everyone tells lies and he has since apologized after being caught and giving the person who caught him a cushy job. What happened to honor and integrity?
- We both have not really continued to express our heart to each other since we initially exchanged cards/letters. It seems that the euphoric stage was too quick. Our calls to each other dont last very long now either.
On the plus side, she seems very organized and is not lazy, has the dream of happily ever after, understands that it takes work to keep love alive. She is a smart girl and I know someone of her character would never cheat. She is not one to take advantage of another and is not greedy for money.
Ok..I got all that and now understand..and I can see where you may now see some red flags...good for you..
