Separated and Adjusting #3

[whitneypinch]

Well, thanks for the follow-up. I have to tell you that book has helped me tremendously. It has helped me emotionally to silence some the "boy" emotions in me. I think it's also helping me not be effected as much by my W.
I am working on getting my career back on track which is a key piece to all this growth. I do want to do something of value now, something I am proud of, something that my kids are proud of.

I did something that may have been off the DB principles. I asked my wife if she wanted to go skating. She said that would be fun to do with the kids. So we are going to do that this Saturday. I am working on being strong and just focussing on the fact we are going out skating. I want to make sure I am myself and that I have no expectations.
I wish she had of asked me but the fact of the matter is I decided to be a "man" about it and to do what I wanted to do regardless of her response.

So, this "hour" I am feeling better but as we all know this can change by next hour.