Hey Whitney - thanks for reminding me about that book - I had been reading to check it out myself to see what it's about. Other people had recommended it on here as well - though I've not read it yet.

One thing I want to say, though, is that you should be the man you want to be - when being that man coincides with the type of man your partner wants - then it seems like things can be a lot healthier.

How are you doing otherwise- just in terms of you - not your W...

-Carlos.


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"We consent to live like sheep." W.H. Auden

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