Cool. I will give the bed issue some thought. As she is intent on a S as of our last convo 2 days ago. I need some detachment time to see where that is going as we are leaving our current home behind regardless. So as you can see it sets up the situation and there is no way to stay in the marital home.
The best I can do right now is to DB, detach and see if it has an effect. There is some time before a housing decision has to be made. I have all intel in place and will add Eblaster to laptop so she can't hide.
I have to keep assessing the will it push her away or draw her closer aspect of everything I do as my coach is telling me. However your advice is always in my mind.
Jeff
***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***
Me: 43 W: 38 SD-15 S(s): 12,9,7 Separated-2/14/2009 My sitch
