Wayward Wife/MLC or Just Bad Behavior

[kat727]

My experience has been that until you are ready to accept something, you won't. You may know it in your head, you may hear everyone telling you the same thing, but that doesn't mean that you are ready to wrap your head around it.

Everyone told me to get over then H,I wasn't ready. I wanted to know that I had tried everything. I didn't fight H on the divorce but I wasn't going to be the one doing all the work to make it happen, since I didn't want it. It took 8 months.

So yes, you will have to accept each bit as you are ready. No one ever said claiming your life back for yourself was easy but we are all able to help.

kat