Today could be the start of a brighter, better life. It is what you make of it.
When your stbx moves back in, be yourself. Don't walk on eggshells trying to hard.
Some people find it weird after all I have been through with my stbx but he and I are really good friends now. Don't know how long that will last but for now, it is what I need. It makes the letting go and moving on so much easier.
Lord Frank...one of my alltime favorite restaurant experiences.
Out here it's called BD's Mongolian Barbeque. And you're right...save up your hunger if you know you're going there. So you can get the most out of your experience.
Yum...
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
I have a Mongolian bbq behind my house. I am always amazed that I seem to add a good amount of spinach, but after the guy cooks everything, the spinach seems to have mostly disappeared.
Another fun place to go where you watch your food getting cooked is Benihana.
When your stbx moves back in, be yourself. Don't walk on eggshells trying to hard.
Some people find it weird after all I have been through with my stbx but he and I are really good friends now. Don't know how long that will last but for now, it is what I need. It makes the letting go and moving on so much easier.
I'm not even going to 'try' anything. Being myself makes the only sense. I will be as pleasant or as unpleasant as I feel at the time.
No more blaming her for what she's done. No more lack of forgiveness to her or me.
Luckily I have IC session tonight. I can set some clear goals and boundaries.
My anxiety is really high this morning, but that's because of work pressures. They will get better as the days progress.
I am so grateful for all the support I'm getting. It still feels weird because I don't believe I deserve it. I'm trying to remember 'as ye sow, so shall ye reap'. I must have 'sowed' a lot of good karma. Thank you all.
Frank....just finish your work before Jack blows a gasket.
Just think, once you get yourself back on track you will be able to help others. That is the circle of the DB board. It feels good to be helped but when you help others, it feels so much better.
