Tal, Is there something in the water supply here lately?
Quote: (H) informed me that he needs to go back and finish packing as he is "moving back on Thursday". have been hoping and fretting about this for so long that it now seems unreal.
My H also announced that he was ready to come home now....and like you, I'm happy and yet hesitant at the same time, mainly because as your husband expressed I wonder if my H is REALLY
Quote: ready to live with people again--even the people that he loves
Do you feel you've laid all the necessary 'gound rules' for this re-cohabitation? I feel like I haven't, that we haven't REALLY cleared the air about alot of important things.
Are you worried about old demons raising thier ugly heads and causing problems? Do you feel strong enough in your current relationship with your H to broach any subject with him now?
I feel as if there's so much still UNSAID between H and I that I feel almost stiffled to bring some of it up...but I know that for my own peace of mind, I'll need to get some things on the table. NOT about OW necessarily, but about the things surrounding the As and the mindset that allowed them to happen etc...guess I need some reassurances that HE knows he will never make these same bad decisions again. T2