Kass, the only person that can stop you reacting to those threats is you. It really is your choice. Remember that.
I would take one look at the txt, think PAH! and then delete it and go and do something completely random. Anything.
SO2, Yep it's hard when they make NO contact. I haven't heard a peep from my W now since a week ago. She asks son about me but won't call. I am treating it like a competition, see who will break first. I try not to think that she isn't bothered or doesn't want to contact me, but simply that she is in competition with me (I know it's rubbish, but it helps me!)
