I just got my H to agree to read it with me. My idea is to have each of us read a chapter and mark the paragraphs that say more to us, then discuss it. He was not enthusiastic, but he never is when I try to touch the R topic. But I did manage to tell him on a nice, non-threatening way that I was afraid that if we never touch the subject or establish decent communication we'll end up in more of the same. He was very tired though and that may account for his lack of enthusiasm on the topic (we had a party at home with 4 other couples and their assorted children from 4 pm to nearly 9:30. I think we had 20 people in all).
I too am exhausted, but do not seem to be able to sleep.
"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little"
Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"
My idea is to have each of us read a chapter and mark the paragraphs that say more to us, then discuss it. 
He was not enthusiastic, but he never is when I try to touch the R topic. But I did manage to tell him on a nice, non-threatening way that I was afraid that if we never touch the subject or establish decent communication we'll end up in more of the same. He was very tired though and that may account for his lack of enthusiasm on the topic (we had a party at home with 4 other couples and their assorted children from 4 pm to nearly 9:30. I think we had 20 people in all).
