Poohbear,

The lies can seem endless. I continue to uncover lies and deception, and I too wonder if they will ever end. I guess at this point we just have to understand that our spouses are simply not going to be honest with us, so we have to treat everything they say or do with suspicion. The hard part in all of that is to treat others the way we want to be treated, not the way they are treating us. My hope is that if I continue to love my W through this that that love will conquer all of this tragedy. Who knows...

WP