Hey Jeff... you really feeling ok? It doesnt seem like you are hanging onto the hope of this being one of those sitches where they have to end it and leave, in order to realise what they have lost. Seems you just accept that its over? Thats how I am reading it anyway.
I agree on the kids thing.. but is she planning to move out imminently then? (I thought you said July), would it be better to wait a while? Sometimes though, when the decisions made, you just want to own it hey, telling people makes it more real.