I just want help for all this. I want to make my M the better than it was before. I never want this to happen again. One thing my W does say. She says at times she's glad this all happened. Because she got her Husband back. Yes, I wasn't always there for her. She wanted the man she married to be the same. And I lost sight of all that. Ok I blame myself at times. I'm hard on myself for being thick headed and never realized the pain I brought on to my wife for not being or taken more time out for her.
(1hope, everyone, including jon's W, have agreed it was inappropriate.)
Okay, jon, you want our input...you say you love your wife, and you want the M to work, so let's change the subject a little bit, and talk about you.
What is it your W feels like she lost? What do you mean about being "thick-headed." How can we help you be the man she wants to be married to?
