WCW,

Forgiveness does come in stages, begining with choosing to forgive.

Every day it gets a little bit easier, but it is definately a process and something you have to choose to do daily.

Eventually the "triggers" won't set you off as much, the the things that would cause you to "spin" will just give you a little twinge.

Hang in there, and take each day as it comes with no expectations but with hope.

Embrace every single positive interaction, and give him happy thoughts and memories to dwell on.

SMILE alot, just force yourself!!

((((hugs))))

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.