I think our xH's were separated at birth too! Triplets then!

My xH hates to read, never (not a word I use lightly) understood why I loved it so much, and doesn't communicate. I can't say he has anger issues though. He's the opposite - if someone raises their voice to him (this only applies to his friends and family, not the public) then he shuts down immediately and does his best impression of a turtle.

Of course, in the public he's very forceful and takes no crap (former police officer). VERY STRANGE dichotomy!

Donna, darlin', you sound brilliant!!! I'm so glad to see you are coming to realizations about your xH and all the ways he was lacking and not giving you the love you deserve to have.

Love you girl!


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!