Great pix. Good for you, I'm not brave enough to show a photo of myself.
After reading this, it hit me that my H had a screwed up childhood, which I knew about. But, didn't realize the extent until just recently and how it must be affecting him to this day. His father worked out of town during the week and when he came back his mom would make up stories about things he did and then his dad would beat him. He called her a backstabber, which is used to sometimes call me...hmmmmm. He hates his mom, so he says, can't believe his dad would put up with her all these years. She's an alcoholic also. I told my H that he doesn't know what his mom was going through and that she was only doing the best she could, blah, blah..he doens't want to hear that. I also brought up the fact that maybe his dad had an affair, you never now, and that was why his mom was so bitter, blah, blah,....and he said my dad?!! Never!