Dont question why, assume it's just her being nice and wanting this done as nicely as possible. If she should open up more, deal with it then and if she does try and be a little prepared for that outcome.

Basically, assume all is the same and keep doing what your doing, but also expect the unexpected and try and plan for what you do in that situation. If it get's to much if that happens, rather than go OTT, listen, validate, then excuse yourself and say you need some time to take it all in and think things through, but that you appreciate it and you love her very much. It's all just a shock.

Can somebody figure out what I'm trying to say and word better for Lucas ???

GL Sir. Keep taking deep breaths and continue as you are