Well.. thats kind of wierd for a grown man to 'test' his own W and kids, hahaha!
I know you say, you can only control yourself and you are supposed to be selfish, as the C says.. but what about communication at least? And honest communication? He has been honest here (sort of!) in his email... how will you reply to that? Will you tell him you wished he had called? That you didnt care if he did or not? I can see its a good plan to DO what you want, but what did the C say about talking to one another at least, keeping the lines of communication open?
You are only a few days in and already misunderstandings are occurring and assumptions being made on both sides.. that just seems like it would add to the confusion and resentments you may be harbouring on both sides and I cant see how thats going to help! But at least you feel 'off the hook' and free to make yourself happy now instead of doing things for the R?
Sorry I missed you last night! I had more snippets, nothing major. xxxx
