We never contacted each other yesterday. GFI, we are supposed to call if we feel like it, ask to go for dinner, drinks, walks, coffee, have sex, anything we feel like wanting we are allowed to ask for. We should NOT do anything we dont feel like doing because we assume it is good for our relationship. The word was "you dont have a relationship to work for, you only have yourselves".
I didnt feel like calling him, I didnt. I dont miss him. I am used to being alone for a 16 months now plus emotionally I am detached from him. I dont know what he is thinking, I am not ASSUMING. Actually, it's more probable that he wasnt thinking..., he just forgot.
Thanks Mish, I was worried about me too. I was panicking, frustrated, pressured, heartbroken, mad, etc etc all at the same time. I am rationalizing (yeah I know head over heart again) everything and fear is subsiding. We'll see. xxxx K
