Didn't do so well myself the past two days detaching. My H is the one who pursues me - so when he wants to get my attention I think that is when he leaves threatening messages about not working on the M. I avoid talking to him when he is angry or trying to convince me of my wrongs. How do I stop the threats? This is the hardest button to resist for me but not the only one he uses to establish contact when I have cut off. I don't like cutting off but if it isn't going anywhere I don't want to be upset any more than I already am. any suggestions about contact, NC, managing contact without getting buttons pushed.
