Just a guess here Wii, the old abnormal 500 series psych classes kicking in. You remember the old "pong" game, the old black and white paddles and a "ball" being shuttled back and forth? Many folks do that, going back and forth on the extremes, but get closer and closer to the middle, equalibreium (sic?) for them, wherever "middle" is for them, the balance point for them if you will. You may be seeing someone searching for that, thus her background and this coming out now, trying to find that again. Not unusual for them to turn their backs on their faith, beliefs, and "blame" someone else. It's their own uncertainty, their own current search for themselves that they have lost track of and can't find, but much easier to throw it off on someone else instead of accepting their own responsibility for it. Or not.
On this end,I'm surviving just fine, although the ghosts of the past keep trying to reinsert into my life, or just agravate it. But those are stories to be told in the upcoming 3/09 surviving post by GB, and not here to step on your thread. Take care.