Been a long time. You really helped me at a critical juncture.
In answer to your question, I know more about PhD and divorce than I care to. I'll answer more fully on my thread over in Surviving.
Sorry for the hijack soulm8. And I'm glad Cinco had the link for DanceQueen's letter. Maybe it'll be beneficial to you, maybe not, but it really struck me and I appreciated DanceQueen's clarity of what she needed - too often we do things without really thinking through why. Hope you're doing okay.