Hello, my first time posting. My wife left me and our kids tonight and moved out. She told me about a month ago she met someone and is in love with him and not me. I was blind-sided as she told me up until last month how happy she was in our marriage. We have been to counseling together and separate and she still wants out of the house. No talk about divorcing yet and I'd like to work on getting her back. Have found the Divorce Busting book at the library and started reading it yesterday. Not sure what to do next, any ideas?