The OM wife called my W first and she returned her call. My W deleted the message and Caller Id so I wouldn't see. Then I was quiet before she left for work and didn't say anything but have a good night.
\ Well that's a horse of a different color, then isn't it? OM's W called her FIRST. And she called her back. Of course she deleted it...look at your response. If it was "payback" she would have called OM's W on her own and she wouldn't have deleted it. I think Virtually Handsome is spot on. You are assuming a lot of vindictiveness on your wife's part. Just who is the vindictive one here? Who is interested in payback?
Also, when you are "quiet"...what does that mean? Pleasantly quiet, or pouting quiet?
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I never meant to call my W a whore. I was trying to hurt her and that was wrong.
So you meant to hurt her... I mean if you were "trying" to hurt her. So you did mean it. Just admit it.
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Sometimes things get the best of me and I just don't say anything.
But how do you show it instead?
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I do wear my ring proudfully. She's not wearing her's to test me.She talked to the OM wife because she's mad at me.But if you noticed she still hid the fact OM's W called and that she called her back.
That is mindreading. What are you basing that on? Why do you think she is trying to test you? Do you REALLY think that she's plotting against you. "I bet if I don't wear my rings...that'll show him." Seriously jon...you REALLY think that? She talked to OM's wife because she's mad at you? How can you ascribe her thoughts to her? How is that humanly possible?
