You DID give me shivers, Tal!!!

I'd NEVER given that a thought...how DREADFULLY easy it would actually be to manipulate some unhappy guy that way!!!

Actually, Tal, you made me feel BETTER about CJ's A's, as this CLEARLY was what the OW were doing! CJ's first reason for falling in love with them? "They listened to me". UGH!

Both of these OW had had OTHER A's, during which no doubt they honed these skills. ...Now this ISN'T letting CJ off the hook, not at ALL, but...it makes it some easier to see how someone kind of naieve (yeah, he can be) could be bowled over by such attention.

Especially with me back here being pissed off about all and sundry!

Good stuff, Tal, you always make me think!

Shiny

P.S. check out newbie Optimist...her sitch is similar in that OW works with her H, looking for advice on how to address the issue...Thanks!