You know you're different when you set up your ex SIL on Facebook, even though you haven't seen her in 5 years.
I scanned through some of her pics. Some were hard to look at for obvious reasons, but it was kinda cool seeing the family, kids, ex's grandma, etc... His grandma is looking pretty old and I know she won't be around much longer. I know S14 doesn't get to see her much. Sometimes I think about going for a visit.
I've been thinking alot lately about how short life is. Maybe that's part of it.
The bio family search is mixed in there too. We only get one shot at this life. I'd like to go out with no regrets, you know what I mean?
So anyway, I guess this will open up some communication between me and the ex's family. Baby steps.
Me 47 Ex H 46 Bomb 9/02 D final 3/04 Ex H now married to OW
------------ This is surviving. There is no such thing as a normal life, there's just life. So get on with it and enjoy it!