Originally Posted By: Vancouverdad

Went to IC today he felt I needed to back off on the surveillence as I had accomplished exposing the A. I agree.


I DISagree (I know, big shock by now, eh?). There is a time and a place for intel, and the three biggest are:

1) To confirm your initial suspicions of an affair;

2) To gather evidence in order to confront and expose;

3) To verify no-contact during a period where the wayward spouse has promised it.

You've unilaterally disarmed. No wonder she smiled at you -- Hitler smiled at Chamberlain no doubt, too.

Puppy