Good one Breakaway. I didn't say anything to her about the ring and didn't say anything about the phone call. The OM wife called my W first and she returned her call. My W deleted the message and Caller Id so I wouldn't see. Then I was quiet before she left for work and didn't say anything but have a good night. Next thing you know I get a call from her asking about all this stuff for the remodeling of the house we bought. I never meant to call my W a whore. I was trying to hurt her and that was wrong. I'm not trying to control anyone, but when you lose your trust for someone it's tough to get it back. Before all of this I never would have thought anything about her ring or the OM's W. But now I get all fired up. I'm trying to move on. Sometimes things get the best of me and I just don't say anything. I do wear my ring proudfully. She's not wearing her's to test me.She talked to the OM wife because she's mad at me.But if you noticed she still hid the fact OM's W called and that she called her back. I never was like this. We'll when I was in my teens. But now with so much to lose I get obsessive about all of it. I try not to. So what do you think? Am I being tested? By the way. She took her rings off because we where painting and a day before the name calling. She didn't take the ring off because of the fight. You know!