I may be a total and complete idiot but I really don't think H will intentionally break me financially. I don't think. As I've said before. Regardless of ALL that has happened. Even after 21 months since bomb, he continues to deposit his paycheck every week into our account. He only takes out 50-60 bucks cash and only writes checks for gas, smokes, groceries, and beer. I have credit checked him and don't think there are any other accounts. Even if there were I don't know where he'd get the money to deposit in there.
Back when he was really crazy he did talk about opening his own account. He even went to get an ATM card. The bank would not let him because his address was different. They told him to open his own He said he would later. It never happened. Nothing more about it since then.
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!