So I noticed W called the wife of OM because they have been friends for 16yrs and since she still says nothing happened with OM except dirty texting she shouldn't have to not call her. My coach told me I should tell her how much it hurts me and reminds me of all the pain. I did this weeks ago and she never tried to call OM W. But I knew she would call OM wife just because she's mad at me for calling her names. So is she trying to prove something to me or what? It really does hurt me, but I know if I say anything about it she'll have more ammunition to be mad at me. Also, we have been remolding a house we bought and before the fight she took off her wedding ring and a couple of other rings of her hands so she wouldn't get any paint on them, but that was before the name calling now that we are done painting she hasn't put any of her rings back on and I'm one who believes if your married you wear your ring. Am I being over obessive about all this stuff. I know once we get passed this I will tell her how much it hurts me that speaking with OM wife hurts me. Should I say anything about the ring or just wait and see?
