A year later, facing myself... #54

[GFI]

"Today we havent contacted each other yet and it is 22:00. I think the advice we got, "dont do anything you dont feel like", took the guilt away and now we are comfortable staying completely apart from each other. Makes me wonder if we are fooling ourselves..."

hi there Kalni - could you be engaged in some double-think / bluff calling here - or are you saying you don't feel like contacting H? Are you thinking he doesn't feel like contacting you? Is he thinking that you're thinking and so he's thinking....???

Best - GFI