Thanks for stopping by & sending some positive vibes my way! (((L)))
""It's sad how so many of them need to really see us "walk away" before they sit down and have a reality check with themselves...""(Kalni)
Well K,
It looks like he didn't take me seriously when I said I wasn't agreeing to "more of the same."
He backed right into it, telling me just enough to keep me thinking something was about to change. I had a deadline in my mind, and after he came by to P/U S5 for dinner & asked me to get copies of my tax documents to him ASAP, I just moved it up a little. Funny, I've never done it that way before, always just gave him the completed worksheet sometime in March. Looks like he was looking forward to taking advantage of filing together again.
When I handed off the booster seat & spotted his overnight bag in the car, it let me know his calling on Saturday night & early Sunday morning was just another fake-out so I'd think he'd stopped seeing the OW. Nope, just changed it to a Sunday night & is now staying at her place instead of his.
Wasn't quite what I had in mind when I said status quo was not acceptable.
So, this is it. I allowed this to continue too long & it's not happening any longer. I let him know that I would like to be served & move along sooner rather than later. We'll do the kid exchange at the front door & please stay out of my house. I'm done with the disrespect & BS. Finished.
It looks like I was on my own with taking the personal inventory. I'll never regret getting to that place, or this place where I've learned so much.... mostly about myself.
