First of all SC you are asking way to many questions to your h. Then when you get info you are disappointed and upset. I know you know this, but that is why you back away and take care of you.

It doesn't matter what you think or what you would like your h to do, he will do whatever HE wants. That's the hard part.

If we could only shake some sense into them. As far as the house and loosing it, men are not emotional nor are most tied to any property. Meaning, it's a business transaction.

Now dust yourself off and think about what plans YOU have!


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"