If you cannot forgive, then...what's the point of trying to be married again? Waste of time, this time it's your fault.

If you cannot forget...as in NOT using it against them in a fight over why are the dishes done...then it is just as pointless.

Don't forget, but don't live in the past either. You have no future.

Switch roles, why would you want to be with someone who brings up, even occasionally one of your terrible mistakes?


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet