Hi Tal!! I'm so glad this issue worked itself out for you!!! It is very clear the H wants to work on the M and wants to be with you, wants to make things better. Don't beat yourself up about the wanting to throw in the towel-it is human nature and you've been through alot to this point. H didn't throw in the towel--but remember he wasn't the one that left, he wasn't the one who had the A--if anything he has more reason to "stick it out"!!! Hang in there and you made some great analysis in hindsight of the sitch and seems you are both learning the patterns of behavior that hurt your M---Keep doing it-it is working and you are both on the road to a better, more fulfilling M!!!
