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Thinking of you...

I know you have way too active a social life, but thought of you when I was watching my Tivo-ed "Friday Night Lights" this weekend. Ever seen that show? All about High School Football and the lives of the coach/players. I love it! Makes me wish it was h.s. football season again. Will have to make do with b-ball I guess...

Glad things are going well in Mikey-land. Hope Caliegh is well.


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M-12.5 yrs
S-8
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yep..Mish..donna.BBJ..John.you are correct...I guess we get so used to posting the drama that when things are good we really don't have a lot to say..

I will say this is the calmest I have been in a long time..I'm at peace and things are good..I'm just being me and that is really good right now..

it's really an odd feeling which I no longer question..

I'm just going with things to see how they turn out.

I'm also going to church..2 Sundays in a row..maybe a record for me

I drove up and saw VST41 last night. Spent a lot a time with her and her eldest daughter and had a great time. Things continue to be really awesome..

I'm taking my dad to my brother's teams basketball game tonight.

I get Caleigh tomorrow then I'm out of town for a few days on Thursday-Sunday..

I'm content, I'm excited..My life is very positive at the moment..and dramaless..

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YEAH!!!!!!!!!!! I seriously couldn't be any happier for you Mike!


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!

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Mike--

I agree, no drama makes for a very dull thread. I do not have much to say at all right now and I feel like enough of my DH's faults have been aired. The rest needs to be between me, him, and God for God to deal with as needed.

I just continue to pray for the right choices and paths to be revealed to me.

SMW


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T16/M14
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through
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Mike, I am in the same situation. Everything is going smoothly and there is nothing of significance to post. I did eat sushi with the X and the kids yesterday, but it was nothing but small talk.

Did you ever ask VST41 if she is interested in wading out into the surf at the OBX to fish?

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Hey Mike,

Can I get you to pop by my thread for some guy thoughts.

PS It's not drama free LOL or boo hoo I can't decided


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D16, S19
1st S 1/08-5/08
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I Filed: Nov 17, 2009
Final: April 14, 2010
EX walked away from kids too



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Quote:
Did you ever ask VST41 if she is interested in wading out into the surf at the OBX to fish?


Kerry..she knows I love it there..I've not asked her about he fishing because in all honesty..I could care less if she fishes..and I don't mean that in a bad way..she's the best IMO..she gets it..

I guess if she ventured out into the surf with me at some point then that would just be the icing on the cake..

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I want to say too, I am happy for you (and Kerry of course).
You sound content, happy...
xxxx
K


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I am happy..don't know how long the happiness will last...and I've stopped worrying about what people think...or what they say..my happiness is up to me..I finally figured it out..and I've finally let it all go...all of it..I've let myself go..I've let myself feel it all and sucked it up...and survived..

and I feel pretty good about it..boy was I ever a negative prick..lord...it blows my mind

I've been so blessed....and there have been times when I felt like I did not deserve those blessings but now realize I was just too hard assed to accept them..let them wash over me and feel them..so now I do...with the help of this place..my friends here..my family...VST41 and her girls..

chitt...life is good..it could go South tomorrow..but it's damn good today..

it is what it is..

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M- 48
XW- mentally 17
KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28
Married- 17 years
Divorce final- 10/16/09

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