We are both in IC with same Christian Psychologist.

We are starting MC next week. He is very good at cutting through rhetoric and helping you be accountable for your actions and/or facing up to your issues.

She hasn't become a WAS yet. If I can DB and create a safe space I can hope for staying in the same house. There will be some time before we come to that crossroads. Maybe we will make enough progress that it can go a different way.

I can only work on me right now and allow some time to pass and wait and watch for some different reactions.

We will see.

Last edited by Vancouverdad; 01/27/09 08:32 PM.
***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***

Me: 43
W: 38
SD-15
S(s): 12,9,7
Separated-2/14/2009
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