Quote: Actually, I decided to be more flexible because of something you told me about how if I waited, at least I'd know that he was READY to come home.
I know what I said and I'm not at all changing what I said...
BUT some kind of time frame has to be set..the vaugness can't go on forever...can it?
I don't want you to do what I did and make a big stink about it every so often...but try to find a way to discuss it with him...let him know that you'd like some "plan" no pressure just that you'd like to have an idea as to when you will actually be living as h and wife...that is unless you can go on waiting til dawn lights on his wolfie head...wich I know I couldn't.
I do have to wonder though...if I didn't make such a stink about it would h still be living in his apartment part time as well?? would I still be tolerating it?
